Sometimes I really, really don't understand people or their attitudes towards someone that does something nice, out of the ordinary, or just plain not expected from a complete stranger, why do they then think you are weak, an easy target or someone you can vilify because they stepped out of the box of is it just being "all about me".
Over the years I've totally stepped out of my box a number of times, I've looked after people that needed someone to step in and give them a chance, an opportunity, a fair go and a break, maybe 50% of the time I've enjoyed that experience, helped someone in need, did something that they didn't expect, helped where I could help and have been rewarded beyond any expectation.
I've never thought life owes me anything, I've always thought how truly easy I've had it, even when my life has dealt me a raw deal. A husband that died of cancer aged 50, 2 daughter that died 1, 5 yo, 1, 3 yo, in a car accident where I was injured seriously and never made it to their funerals etc etc. I've never blamed anyone, things just happen, the girls death probably could have been avoided, but what we were doing at the time meant we were in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So please tell me why are you vilifing me because I need my flat back for my son, this flat was created for him and his brother to use, your a tenant who I've bent over backwards to give you a break for the last 18 months your rent has been well below market expectation, I've looked after you and you have repayed me with your comments on facebook, not paying your gas bill, then sinking the knife in on facebook because I gave you "Notice to leave". You forget you befriended me on facebook and I've been reading your lies. This is my home, I offered you a place in my home, not knowing how much you receive in Government help, I don't get any handouts, I look after myself, I don't appreciate you filing a "notice of unfair Eviction" I've given you 90 days notice, give me the break that I've given you.